Coffee with a dash of revenge

People always say revenge is sweet, especially when it's do onto others what they have done onto you.

I beg to differ.

To me, revenge is sweeter when you are able to let go of the past and move on.



Trust me, it kills the other person more when he/she knows that you are having a better life and not letting the past linger on. Of course, it drills even deeper when they realise that the pain they inflicted onto you didn't hurt as much, but only makes you stronger; and that these insignificant people are easily forgotten like yesterday's old news or some one hit wonders. Hee hee...



I am not one who bad-mouth about people but when it's unfair treatment or lack of justice, I will be the first to stand forth and be vocal about it. I have to thank Mdm Ng (my mom's maiden name) for her good upbringing and instilling the good virtues in my life. Of course God played a major part in modelling who I am today.

And because of that, I have made 2 big (brave) leaps this month:

1) Ended a draining and negative relationship
2) Divorced my boss (and my job)

Of course, I believe there are some good in the above, but well, what can I say? If it doesn't work out, it's better to pack your bag and leave then to continue being in misery. Life is too short for self-piety.



Besides, it could work in favor for both parties. Stop wasting each other's time and effort, knowing certain things just don't fit well together. (Think size S bikinis on Rosie O'Donnell or desert wine with beef lasagna and raw oysters...eewww!!) Nevertheless, I wish all the best for these people whom I have left behind.

Today, I let my girls go out for lunch together (I am a good boss, ok! haha!) They deserved the time off and I can secretly feel their sadness when they heard about my departure. These wonderful ladies are the reasons why I can't bear to leave this place. They are just like my family and I love them dearly for all their kindness.

To make myself feel better, I decided to take some wacky photos of myself, in a bid to cheer myself up.

Spinelli coffee - they serve the greatest lattes


What a beautiful bejeweled PINK poppy...pen


Apple's baby bear - ain't it cute?


Luv this pepsi can design (although I am not a fizzy drink lover)


I'm sure gonna miss this office and my cosy little work corner. But life is all about moving on and learning new experiences. To those who feel or are going through likewise, don't despair. Remember, there's always a beautiful rainbow after the rain.

God Bless,
Stanley